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Drug Rehabilitation

Wednesday, May 9th, 2007

I know I’ve posted about drug rehab in the past but this is because it’s a topic that I feel strongly about. There are places all over the united states where you, or a loved one, can go and get the treatment that they need. Drug addictions and alcohol abuse are not only for ‘certain kinds of people’. They’re stretching as far down as you’re 10 year old brother. We’re considered the prescription generation, you don’t need booze and cocaine to tickle your fancy these days. With all of the medications out there – pain killers, uppers, depression medication – there are many routes one can take that will eventually lead to massive harm caused to their bodies, minds and personalities in general.

One place that offers relief for adults is Cliffside Malibu. It’s a residential drug rehab, alcohol rehab center and extended care facility for adults suffering from alcoholism, drug abuse, eating disorders, depression and other co-occurring orders. Their drug treatment philosophy incorporates a variety of clinical component’s to create a comprehensive and effected treatment program. The components of alcohol and drug rehab include detox, individual therapy, group therapy, depression treatment, and alternative medicine. Their drug rehab program values and utilizes philosophies to individualize their treatment plans and to improve individual outcomes.

If you live in the California area, I’m sure this article would be of some help to you. Note that some drug rehab facilities don’t require you to live in state in order to get the help you need. A friend of mine was shipped off of Long Island and sent to a facility in Ohio. Each facility is set up to meet specific needs. Maybe Cliffside Malibu in California could help you with yours.

Movie Addicts READ THIS!

Wednesday, May 9th, 2007

While I don’t exactly condone it, Baby spends a lot of time and money on movies, most of which he hasn’t watched but has tucked away in his binder. Just recently he decided to write down all of his movie collection in a notebook thinking that it would be easier to get through everything. I don’t think that was the best idea considering he’s got a few hundred DVD’s to go through and a notebook doesn’t have a ‘search’ option.

During my usual daily poking around the ‘net, I came across a movie catalog software that offers so many features for your movies it’s unreal. With this program you can import information from internet movie databases, they have a barcode option for those with a scanner so the movie is instantly added to their database with literally the click of a button. You can search through your movies and even take screen caps FROM the movie and use them in your listing. Some people can remember things better from the movie than they can the box it came in. I just think that’s an awesome idea. There’s ALSO an HTML export option so you can list them on your personal/collective website and many other features that one can only imagine.

I just told him about this program and now he’s literally jumping for joy stating how badly he wants the program. If he doesn’t buy it for himself, I may just buy it for him. It’s only $35 for a single-user copy and with all of the movies he has, this’ll just make his life very easy – and mine in the long run. This is a pretty awesome program. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED. I can’t wait to download it.

Plastic Surgery 101

Wednesday, May 9th, 2007

There are many aspects to plastic surgery that scare the bajesus out of me. Both men and women are going to great lengths to tighten, tuck, suck out or even implant something into their bodies. Beverly Hills rhinoplasty is almost as popular as getting your hair done. There’s many Los Angeles plastic surgery technicians that are doing everything they possibly can to ‘improve’ what men, women and children were given at birth.

I don’t know if I’d personally ever have plastic surgery. Sure, there are things about my body that I hate but I’m also working on them at the moment, without having to be knocked unconscious to reach my goals. Some people don’t grasp this concept though. Lunch-time Lypo is something that also scares me. Instead of going out for coffee, you can be treated with a local and watch the fat being sucked out of your stomach. Resources like plasticsurgery101.net help you understand more about surgery so that you can understand cosmetic surgery including expected results, recovery and even those whom are candidates for the surgery itself. There are detailed procedure descriptions, news and trends, even before and after photos. Sure, this kind of a resource can be valuable for those who are seriously going to get themselves onto the surgery bandwagon but even reading through the resources, it still turns my stomach a little bit.

Diamonds are a girls BEST friend!

Saturday, May 5th, 2007

Baby and I have been talking about marriage quite a bit. We have both agreed to hold off on it for a little while so we can get our lives in order, but I also know that he’s full of surprises. During my usual daily surf I came across a site for Engagement Rings and I have to say I’m pretty impressed with their database. They have everything from simple Diamond Rings to Wedding Rings.

Now, I grew up with a jewelry store in the family so I know a thing or two about diamonds and I have to say that the quality of rings on this site should be held in pretty high regard. They have a great section from .5 carats to 4 carat rings, every possible shape and beautiful cuts. Even the clarity options are gorgeous. You can completely design your own ring on this site, most jewelry stores will give you this option but sometimes you’re limited with what you can do. This site gives you full control no matter what you’re looking to setup.

Engagement Rings Platinum/Diamond Me, being a girl, obviously I’m dropping hints about which would be the best one to have, I’m also very picky about what I put on my finger. Oddly enough, however, one that was previously designed is the one that I absolutely fell in love with. I couldn’t figure out how to design it myself though. The ring I found is a diamond/platinum combination that’s very nicely put together. Some may think it’s a bit over the top but any girl who was handed something like this would probably swoon, no matter how simple they were. It’s a very clean line ring that gives you anything you could ask for.

Pretty flowers!

Tuesday, May 1st, 2007

2FlowersCOM When it comes to special occasions, birthdays, holidays, etc. I like the idea of sending flowers to whomever deserves them for that day. With mother’s day coming up, I know for sure that I’m getting them for Kay but I also think I’m going to send them out to my aunt as well. I go through the usual websites looking for them but recently I came across 2flowers.com. The cool thing about this company is they deliver arrangements and gifts in many countries, all orders are hand delivered by premium local florists. Their pieces are all inclusive with absolutely no hidden fees. Orders are delivered next day, to any city.

I find larger companies like 1800flowers to be a bit impersonal. Sure, they deliver promptly and can create some nice looking arrangements but I like the idea of having mom and pop kind of florists to do the work, getting flowers away from the corporate world. I came across a few arrangements that I thought were really sweet for mother’s day gifts. The Many Thanks Bouqet has roses, ranunculus, gerbera daisies, and lilies in shes of pink that are complimented by white snapdragons and larkspur. If I were to wake up with this arrangement on my night-stand, I think I’d grin to the point of my cheeks popping off.

It’s really an interesting site, and I suggest you head over to 2flowers.com to get in your purchases for Mother’s Day – you only have until May 13th to do it!

Yep… I play!

Tuesday, May 1st, 2007

I know I’ve noted it before but many people still don’t know that I play backgammon on a regular basis. The game actually relaxes me, almost as much as mancala or checkers. I started playing backgammon when I was younger. My father taught me and it was our ‘thing to do’ whenever nothing else was going on and we just wanted to find something to keep us entertained. At the rate of there never being anything good on TV, playing often was the only option. I do a lot of surfing online for tips and tricks and I spend quite a bit of time floating around backgammon masters, they’re a great site for keeping up with rules and what not.

Recently, BackgammonMasters.com purchased Roman Greenberg’s boxing shorts for quite a bit of money to help him make it to the top professional boxing ranks. The money will go directly to Greenberg for training for improvement of his boxing skills. After the match they’ll auction off his shorts starting at $100,000 and all the proceeds will go to charity for Arab and Jewish youth.

So it’s not just about playing the game anymore. To some degree it’s about helping others in need as well. Sure, they’re sponsoring someone to get their name out there but in return they’re giving quite a bit of money to children who need it. Give a little, take a little…nothing wrong with that.

I don’t like lawyers…

Monday, April 30th, 2007

The one thing I hate the most is dealing with the court systems. I’ve had my fair-share of run-ins with court rooms, mainly because giving someone a free nose job is frowned upon – but that’s besides the point. Right now, my most recent dealing, is all because Baby’s father is a complete butt head.

Last week the doorbell rang and I found myself face-to-face with the mail man while holding back one of the dogs from ripping his ankle off. It was a registered letter, and not thinking twice about it – I went ahead and signed for it. I wasn’t aware that it came from his father until after I’d closed the door and pushed Princess back into her bed. After opening everything, baby instantly went crazy to find out that his father is suing his mother for things of which she has no control over. There were at least 100 pages worth of crap that he’d printed off line and sent in to the court house so who knows what’s really going on there, I just know that she’s been through three lawyers about it and none of them can help her out.

I wanted to find something for her because there’s no reason why she should do this all by herself. I did happen to come across longestlaw.com which is a site that specializes in getting you the right information about attorneys. It teaches you how to choose an attorney and where to find them. There are articles and daily resources about attorneys, us attorneys and tax attorney’s. It was kind of hard to read through everything because of all of the disorganization but what I could come across, nothing really stood out for me to help her out at the moment. There is a site map but the site is SO overrun with ads that it makes me look like I have no ads on my site at all, in comparison. Unfortunately there was nothing on this site that could help her out because she needs one in the Divorce/Children’s Law area so I had to continue my search elsewhere. She hopes to have everything done within the next couple of days, and because of how the letter showed up she doesn’t even know if he actually filed any of this with the courts yet.

There’s just a lot of phone calls to be made, and a lot of people to deal with – this isn’t going to be fun at all.

World Travel: Bulgaria

Friday, April 27th, 2007

Anyone will tell you that the real money lays in investments and real estate. Investing in property is probably one of the most financially sound things to do, if you can afford it. A sound investment is Overseas Property. While there is still a mound of debt troubling the world, there are some people still making quite a bit of money, enough to travel the world if they really wanted to, especially with credit card reward miles. When traveling, it’s always a good idea to look at some of the possible investment properties out there as well. Maybe you’d come across a house that’s absolutely beautiful, and up for grabs. Having a vacation home is great, but owning it for local renters or even listing it on hotel websites for Bed and Breakfast type rooms is great as well. One hot-spot at the moment is in Bulgarian Property.

Bulgaria Those in the investment field will consider Bulgaria to be untapped potential in regards to properties. Bulgaria is a country of variety, both graphically and culturally. The country has only received widespread recognition within the last couple of years, many locations in Bulgaria have yet to be discovered by international tourism. Tourists find Bulgaria beautiful based on their beaches along the Black sea, hundreds of thousands of people head here yearly for fun in the sun, in a beautiful environment. One place I looked into the most had to be Golden Sands, a resort on the Black Sea (show in the image to the left).

If you’re looking into investing in something that will give you not only a great turn around, but beautiful scenery…Bulgaria is the place to go.

Mother’s Day – Fast Approaching

Friday, April 27th, 2007

FlowerBloom - Flower I spent many years of my life without a mother figure, I didn’t feel that sense of ‘female authority’ until Alicia and I spent more time together than we did with our own families. While I haven’t spoken to her in quite some time, I do consider her mother to be a mother-figure to me. I also consider Baby’s mom one as well, she’s probably one of the sweetest women I’ve ever known. Since mother’s day is coming up, I figured I’d do something special. I’ve considered the plethora of ideas and the one that sticks out quite a bit is a product named FullBloomTea.

FullBloomTea is a very unique kind of tea. Not only is it visually appealing, they taste great too. A quick description of how it works, and how it tastes:

When steeped in water that has been boiled, our tea blooms twist, turn, move and appear to bloom right before your eyes into amazing floral bouquets. Not only are these teas beautiful, but they also contain the finest rare Silver Needle White Tea leaves rich in antioxidants and are infused with beautiful dehydrated flowers such as Jasmine, Globe Amaranth and Marigold just to name a few which give additional flavors and health benefits to our teas. Mild in flavor, our tea blooms can be re-steeped up to 3 times each. And once you are done steeping and drinking, why not put the used bloom in a clear glass or vase with clean water to enjoy the beauty as a centerpiece or on your nightstand for an extra day or two.

FlowerBloom - Pod FullBloomTea.com is featured on 6 popular tea-based blogs it was also featured on Great Day San Antonio Health Bites (TV). Their most popular blooms are: Let Love Bloom, Happiness Bloom, Teapot Bloom, Star Bloom. If you look at some of the images behind it, they literally just come in small little packages that pop when they hit the water, that’s pretty darn nifty if you ask me. There are quite a few tea’s to choose from, they don’t just have blooms – they do have your standard tea leaves as well. There are quite a few gift packages available as well, starting at just $29. I guess I’m going to have to get two, won’t I?

Payday Loans

Friday, April 27th, 2007

There are a plethora of options to keep yourself on top of your bills. Unfortunately, a lot of employers are now only handing out paychecks twice a month (I guess it cuts down on paperwork). The problem with this is a lot of bills are due at separate times during the month, because of this – there is a rise in bankruptcy based on a rise in things piling up. There are options though, payday loans being one of them.

A payday loan is a short term financial device intended to help people cover their bills or unexpected expenses during a temporary loss of income or a time of financial duress. Payday loans are secured against a future source of income such as a paycheck or government stipend that are deposited directly into your account within 24 hours of a completed application.

In order to become qualified for a payday loan you need to meet a small list of requirements. You obviously need a job or regular source of income which must total at least $1,000 a month. If you have an active checking or savings account and are at least 18 years old, you’re eligible for a payday loan.

The approval process is anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours. Funds are transferred directly to your bank account overnight, so you’ll need direct deposit enabled for your bank account. There’s no need for a credit check because payday loans are secured against your paycheck. So whatever your financial situation is, as long as you’re making a minimum of $1,000 a month – you’ll be approved. There’s no application fee and it’s safe to apply for one online, especially through sites like powerpaydayloan.com.

If you’re having financial troubles because of an unexpected occurrence, you should try for one today.

Billing made easy…

Thursday, April 26th, 2007

As a business owner, I’m always looking for new and interesting ways to make my life a little bit easier. I do not have a traditional billing system for my hosting clients, one of the most commonly known products is Modern Bill, I didn’t see the point in having a subscription payment going out just so I can keep track of the subscription payments coming in. Because of this, I use a very hassle-free method, a 3 ring binder. I have one for each server and each client is listed in alphabetical order (by domain name) with their email, Paypal address, and account status. All of my invoices are sent out with Paypal. But once a payment is received, it’s marked off on the users page as “Payment Dates” and since it’s mainly in pencil, I have a ‘running balance’ section to show exactly how much each client has made me.

Simplify This The problem is that, while this is a very organized process, it’s a bit more time consuming than I’d actually like at the moment considering everything going on. I’ve come a program for online invoicing and payment named Simplify This. It’s a web-based application that lets the user (you) easily invoice clients and get paid faster online. It’s designed for freelancers, small businesses and independent professionals. It helps you free yourself from using a complex accounting software so there will be no more forgotten invoices, and no software to install. Since it’s web based, you can use it anywhere. So if you’re at the library, work, home, or any other computer in general – you can still access your records. It does help for those whom do frequent conference calls with clients, this way you can log into your account and check on it anywhere.

There are some key features to this program. It’s easy to use, you can customize it to your business needs, invoices are sent via email, you can accept payments online and then track your payments as well. It even records one-time and recurring charges. Right now it’s currently a free trial, I think it’s worth trying out…don’t you?

Savings and you…

Wednesday, April 18th, 2007

It’s nice to come across a resource that’s more valuable to the consumer than anyone else. My newest bookmark is SavingsAccounts.com. The site was created to help you, the consumer, find the perfect savings account for your needs. They help you to compare online banking services and to find the bank that offers the highest interest rates with account features that suit your individual needs. Right now, their top ranking savings bank is HSBC. They offer 6.00% interest rates with no money fees, no minimum balances and they also have a range of accounts from savings to checking, credit cards and certificates of deposit.

I’m currently with Washington Mutual, and they only offer 5.00% interest rates, which aren’t that bad but I’m not content with their services. In order to get a savings account with them you need to create a free checking account. You’re charged monthly fee’s on your savings account and after a while, it really just becomes a hassle. Before I moved to Delmarva, I had to make it a point to close my savings account because it was really screwing me up. I’m glad to have found this resource because now I know what other banks to look for that won’t wind up messing up my finances.

They have a very helpful resources section where they give you a few articles with ideas that help you understand your online banking and taking control of your finances to plan for the future.

I’d say it’s a site worth checking out, honestly. Head over to SavingsAccounts.com and poke around, you may learn something valuable about the bank you’re currently with.

Five Tips To Reduce Your Credit Card Bills

Monday, April 16th, 2007

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Vacation Coming Soon!

Monday, April 16th, 2007

As regular visitors would know, I’m going to Atlantic City in May with the boyfriend for a fun-filled weekend get-away at the beautiful Harrah’s Hotel & Casino. Meeting us there will be his mother and aunt. I got lucky with my hotel reservations because I’m a Total Rewards member and my entire weekend is paid for thanks to the points on my membership card. We’re going up on Saturday and coming home on Monday and it’s VERY rare to get a FREE ROOM on a weekend, so I’m anticipating heaps of free fun before I even hit the slots.

His mother and aunt weren’t so lucky though, they had to search through websites for hotel discounts because booking directly through Harrah’s was going to cost around $400 a night. They’re only going for an over-night but $400 is still very steep for a hotel room. The issue is really that the booking is based on a weekend and considering it’s getting warmer and everyone is wanting to take trips down to the Jersey Shore, it’s obviously going to cost more money to stay overnight during a weekend than it would during the week. If they decided to make the reservation on a Tuesday, the room would be around $90. Absurd…no?

HotelReservations.com A good resource for vacation go-ers is hotel reservations .com because they offer quite a bit of information from hotels, motels, resorts and even vacation rentals. They’ve got excellent competitive rates and pricing. They also offer discounts on destinations WORLD WIDE. No matter what kind of commercials you see on television, only a handful search world-wide, so you’re really getting a deal here. Doing a quick search for rooms (located IN the casino) I found that their pricing was pretty darn good. A two night stay at Trump Marina is only about $300, which is a lot better than the ONE night stay that cost $400. That’s about $150 a night, something you can’t really complain about…It’s safe to say I’m keeping this site bookmarked for my next vacation.

How do I get through THIS ONE?

Monday, April 16th, 2007

Baby and I were going over the bills the other day and while doing some poking around his credit card statements, I found out that the interest rates on his two cards are 19% and 24%. I know he owes like $2,500 on one card and $500 on another. When he got the cards a few years ago he bought things that he needed, his desktop and a digital camera, etc. The problem now is that we’re living together and pulling our assets together to see where we stand financially and his extra bills are really weighing us down. He’s probably paid back double what he’s actually spent but considering the interest rates keep building onto the current balance, he just can’t seem to get ahead no matter how hard he tries.

For the past few weeks I’ve been considering getting a credit card of my own. I figure that while business is coming in good at the moment, it’s not going to last very long and until I can hold down a solid 9-5, I’m still going to need some cash-flow for food, supplies, items for Bella, etc. While doing some hunting around creditcardflyers.com I was able to compare cards and offers to find the best card for me, financially. I’m 50/50 on getting a card because I’m not too keen on spending money that I essentially don’t have, but sometimes you really have no choice. I just don’t want to get to where Baby currently is. So, my first goal was to find a card with a low interest rate. Then of course it had to be with a respected company because I don’t want to get myself into an endless pit of debt. Based on comparison I’m going to go with either Bank of America or Chase, after that I have no idea what to do. I guess I’m going to have so spend some more time surfing the site before I can really grasp it.

A few have told me to consider a student credit card but I won’t be enrolled into college for another few months (if things go as planned) so that probably wouldn’t help me out right now, you know? So I think sticking with the low interest cards may be the best thing for me at the moment. I really don’t know what I’m going to do…I guess this required a lot more research than I’d originally thought.

I asked Baby how he managed to mess himself up the way he did and he gave me one of the dumbest answers I’ve ever heard. He signed up for one of his cards because he went to Home Depot to pick up a tape measure or something and he got a second one for free by signing up for a credit card. I looked at him with a blank stare for so long that I was on the verge of drooling. He went on to say that he never considered signing up through those companies that stand outside of colleges but he wishes he did because they probably would have had lower interest rates to offer him. Go figure.

Quit Crying…Stop Buying!

Friday, March 30th, 2007

Since I’m going away in a few weeks I know for sure that I’m going to have to make sure to have my credit card on me. The room, as of right now, is being held WITH my card and there’s hardly enough money in the account to cover anything. That’ll change over the course of the next few weeks though, considering all the work I’ve been doing lately. It’s my goal to hit like $1,000-$1,200, sofar I’m about $350 towards it (in two days) so I guess I can handle making the rest in the next 40 days…right?

I think, at this point, everyone depends heavily on their bank accounts considering there’s no real need to carry cash anymore. Sure, a quick stop in the store is easy to cover with cash but if the cash is stolen, there’s no getting it back. It’s easier to have a debit card because your bank will honor what was withdrawn and you haven’t lost any money…just your sense of security.

I don’t like credit cards, I don’t really like the idea of the whole “buy now, pay later” stuff. My “credit card” is my Debit Mastercard. I only spend what I can afford. Anyone who’d ask me about it would most likely get the same answer. I don’t believe in Debt, I don’t feel sorry for those IN debt. “Quit crying, stop buying” is all I really have to say to that one.