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Sunday, September 16th, 2007

It’s been a pretty hectic weekend, on top of the extra four house-guests, I’ve been ass-deep in trying to get a proper back-up of the servers so I can work on moving them to another company. The one I’m with isn’t cooperating, the second – I’m waiting on a few emails. I’ve also managed to go through all of the emails I’ve received based on the downtime, it’s not easy to say that the company you’ve put a lot of money, and trust in, is a complete piece of shit to those who are wondering about what’s going on behind the scenes.

We didn’t get the house, we put in our bid too late. Instead of a mortgage we’re just going to get a personal loan and then work on apartment living in Ohio. I also thought of it in regards to the fact that I’ve never been there before so putting so much effort into a mortgage while owning a house I’m unhappy in, really wouldn’t be worth it. We were looking into areas close to Sean’s brother, turns out that all of the apartments in his area, as well as many others, are turning into section 8, and knowing full well that I don’t want to be the only person in the building paying for something out of pocket, while the rest are living off the government, I figured we’d look into a few other options.

After talking to his brother, we found out that there is a place available in his complex. It wasn’t listed online because it’s a very family-oriented so word-of-mouth is the only option to getting into this place. An upside for us is the fact that his brother is in really good with the manager of the complex so that will more than likely help us out as far as getting in is concerned. Our big thing right now is how we’re going to actually GET there.

We were thinking uHaul and I just recently found out we can add a full dolly to the back of the uHaul so we can take his car with us, this is the $500 option if we’re going to get the 17′ truck. It supports 2-3 bedrooms worth of stuff, so I figure that since it’s the bedroom and the office – we should be ok.

The other option were PODS. We get a 16′ POD put at the front of the house, load it in and then have THEM ship it to Ohio for us. This way the only thing we have to do is drive our car out there and then wait for the POD to show up. This is the $1500 option.

I know that for most people this would be those, “Duh? Use the uHaul!” option, but Sean isn’t too comfortable driving a large truck to begin with, so adding the car behind it would just make things worse and it IS an 8 hour drive. We factored in that moving costs are going to be in the $1000 range, but $1500?

I’m sure we’ll figure something out. We’re going out there sometime within the next few weeks to look around. If we find that the one in his brothers complex is good enough for our needs, we’ll take it – come back here, and then figure out the actual truck/moving option sometime within the 8 hour drive.

New TV Show: Gossip Girl

Friday, September 14th, 2007

PPPI’ve been watching a lot of TV lately, mainly because I’ve been in the bedroom on the laptop thanks to my back acting up, and company in the house. While flipping through channels last night I came across Reba and figured “Okay, why not?” By the next commercial break I was climbing out of bed to get myself a drink and I saw the preview for a new series called Gossip Girl on The CW. I heard something about a blog, so being a blogger I was interested from the get go. I did some searching around the Internet to find out what the show was really about though, I came across the IMDB listing for it.

Welcome to New York’s Upper East side where the wealthy and connected mingle at benefits and try to deal with their always dramatic love lives, not to mention picking colleges. Blair Waldorf is the so-called toast of adolescence in her world; she and her friends, Kati Farkas and Isabel Coates, go to a prep school and fancy parties with their rich parents. Blair is envied by her adversaries because she is thought to have the perfect life, not just because of her gorgeous boyfriend, Nate Archibald, but because she’s also planning on getting into her dream college,Yale. With everyone worried about college(or procrastinating on worrying, which everyone seems to be doing), and senior year dragging along, her seemingly perfect life is interrupted by her ex-best friend, the beautiful Serena van der Woodsen, coming back into town after getting kicked out of boarding school. Serena comes back into her life, and into the eyes of Blair’s boy friend. When everything Blair knows starts to fall apart, everyone will realize that her life is far from perfect. Will life in the the Upper East Side redeem itself of what it’s really supposed to be? Or will the false facade reveal that the rich have the same problems as the not so rich (Jenny and Dan Humphrey), if not more. And just maybe Jenny and Dan are all the more happy with their simple, not so expectant lives.That was a plot summary submitted by an IMDB user, but it got the point across either way.

The series is narrated by “Gossip Girl” which is the voice of Kristen Bell, she runs a website where she blogs about her fellow Upper East Siders, stirring the pot and feeding potential rivalries in this supposed exclusive and vicious circle of “friends”. It premiers on Wednesday, September 19, 2007 on the CW if you’re interested.

I was going to paste in the special widget that the site offers, but it’s messing up the entire site. So just head to the site I linked above, you can see the previews there.

I think I’m moving…

Monday, September 10th, 2007

I guess I’m moving to Ohio. We found a house in Boardman (or something like that) it’s in the $120k range, 4 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, 2000 sq ft and it’s on a little over an acre of land. The house was completely remodeled and it includes everything we were looking for. Hardwood floors, spacious rooms, large patio (even has a built in gas grill) there’s also more than enough land to expand so in the future we can put in a pool and the kitchen does need a little bit of updating but that’s based on the fact that it doesn’t really match the rest of the house. I’m sure it did back in the 50’s but oh well.

My Dream Kitchen Knowing that I’d like to remodel the kitchen, to my personal standards, I did some poking around the Internet and found the absolute perfect setup, I’m not big on the vent in the middle but I’m sure that could be done differently depending on who’s actually going to build it for me. I measured things out and in order to do a kitchen this large, I would have to lose some space in another room but considering I see no point in a “family room” that needs to be 20×20, I figure knocking it back to about 20×10 would be more than fair. All you really need is a TV and a bit comfy couch, you know?

There aren’t any views of the bathroom, I’m getting in touch with the Realtor to request more pictures. Sean and I are going to pool our money together so we can get his car looked at and we’ll then take a trip over to Ohio and do a walk through, he’d also like to visit his brother and luckily, the house is about 10 minutes away from where his brother lives so I assume there’s going to be some frequent house guests. Especially with the addition of a pool, and a larger kitchen for me to do quite a bit of cooking in.

The lot to the back of the house is massive, we’d also have to get a shed or something so that we can pick up a lawnmower because at this point in time, I really don’t trust hiring anyone to do the work for us. I’d rather go out there with the lawnmower thanks to the morons we’ve got working in this complex. They barely touch the lawn, what’s the point in having to pay these people if they don’t do any work?

There are still a lot of things to work out, on top of the actual purchase we’re going to have to work on just how we’re going to move out there as well. Up until this past Saturday a smaller uHaul could suffice for all of our things, now that we’ve got the new bed – we’re going to need to invest in something much larger. At least we know that we’ll have the help when we get out there.

I’m just not sure if I’m ready to pick up and move again, especially with Cancer ripping it’s way through my family at the moment, not sure if being 4-hours further away from Glen Cove would be a good idea but I’m sure there’s a reason behind me finding the house, lets just hope the loan comes through on it.

Our monthly budget is going to be about $1700-$2200 in bills. Sean and I are going to have to average, and/or maintain, approximately $3500-$4000 a month in order to live. It’s $990 on the mortgage, then there’s gas, electric, water, sewer and other things to factor in. Then there’s the car insurance, and an emergency fund that’ll have to be shoved into savings from time to time. I just hope we can handle it, I really do.

House hunting continued.

Friday, September 7th, 2007

Stepping away from sites like Remax and Rent, I’ve been searching around on ePERKS.com in hopes to find a decent real estate agent in both the Eastern Ohio and Southern Vermont areas. I know, I’m bouncing around quite a bit and even considering throwing Delaware back into the mix because I’ve found a few units in the area that are very reasonably priced, they’re just in another part of town. As far as the community itself is concerned, it’s the same land owners, that would probably be the only downside for me.

Sean was telling me about another community up in Millsboro or something like that (there are so many Mills in Sussex county, it’s easy to get confused), it’s like you’re camping year round considering all of the trees and the lake/pond or whatever happens to be in there. Karen hated them because you have to do your own gardening but I personally see nothing wrong with having to buy a lawnmower and do it myself. Considering we’re “paying” for them to do our lawns during the week and the blade barely touches the ground, I know for sure that I’ll actually get something accomplished if I just do it myself, you know?

We’re looking into Ohio because essentially it’s affordable and he’ll have his brother there as well. So at least we’ll know SOMEONE with the initial move in. Vermont is a different story, for me it’s my love of snowfall and the fact that in Rutland (the county we’re looking into) has this pretty big Halloween festival. To top that off for me, is all of the activities they have available. It seems like just a nice little area, I don’t know.

Either way the loan amount has been finalized in the $125,000 range, so no matter where we actually end up – I’ll be able to get something that isn’t falling apart and still have a decent amount of money to furnish the place and have a little bit of money that’s been pushed onto the side, to maybe get Sean the TV he’s been drooling over for a few years now.

Moving on OUT

Thursday, September 6th, 2007

After going back and forth on a few emails with Surpass Hosting, I think I’m going to wind up making the switch. Hopefully this resolves all of the downtime issues that all servers have been experiencing. At first I thought my router was on the fritz but when every other website loaded except for those located on host6 and host9, I decided that it’s time to move on. I’m still working out all of the details but I do plan on making the switch by the end of the month (maybe sooner depending on whether or not I wish to even bother making the payment to the existing hosting company).

I’ll be saving money in the end, I’ll be able to downgrade a few things and I’m also gaining over a terabyte of bandwidth in the process. Right now I’ve got say 80gb space and 500gb bandwidth available to me, with Surprass I’ll have about 120gb and 2tb with the switch. It’s not even space I’m concerned with at the moment, it’s the bandwidth. As far as clients are concerned only about 20gb-30gb of disk space is even being used on each server, but the reason for needing 3 accounts is the 1tb of bandwidth (total) that’s being used. Since that has doubled I can downgrade to just the one server and thats excellent news for my wallet. Over $800 a month in hosting fees is being downsized to about $200. Savings, savings, savings!

I just wish it didn’t have to come down to this, but at this point I really have no choice. For the past three days I’m getting downtime after downtime and to top that off, posts through paid advertisers are being rejected left and right because my site isn’t accessible. I find it completely absurd and can’t wait until this is all resolved.

Part of me wishes that Rik would get back into hosting so I can go back to him. I don’t think I was EVER unhappy with his services once. For the past two months, I’ve absolutely hated where I am now. Sorry Tony but you seriously don’t help me out as much as you claim and I’m just completely done with you and the data center.

Weekend Plans

Wednesday, September 5th, 2007

PPPSean and I are possibly going to take a trip up to Laurel this weekend. He goes up there to look at all of the specialty shops and gadgets, I go up there to look at all of the trade show displays, mainly because I’m easy to please and some of the configurations are just too cool to pass up. I just like finding new and interesting things at trade shows. Mainly technology but when it comes to new kinds of accessories it also sparks my interest as well. I poked around godfreygroup.com because I know they create some of the displays and I can’t wait until the locals find out about their displays because it would really kick the trade show into high gear, that’s for sure.

I’m surprised.

Wednesday, September 5th, 2007

I have to say that I’m surprised with how well Bella did when Karen’s sister was here this past weekend. I was concerned how she was going to react to the kids because she hasn’t been around them in a while but she was pretty good, and her usual cute self. She attempted to sleep with one of them, he wanted to be left alone so he asked that she be taken off his bed. And when it came to the other, he’s a dog lover by nature so while Bella and Princess kind of took over his bed, he put himself on the floor. I thought that was sweet, but the dogs don’t need to be there either – so I moved them both. Princess wasn’t too happy but it isn’t her bed to make that choice.

Her sister left this morning, but supposedly she’s coming back sometime next week. Her kids start school in a few hours, and next week they already have a day off for the holiday. Then the following week they have a three-day weekend with another holiday. Why do they even bother to start school if they’re going to close down for a few days two weeks in a row?

I probably never noticed that kind of schedule when I was in high school, but I’ll tell ya – thinking back on it now – it was probably one of the stupidest things I’ve ever heard of.

Buying Business Cards

Wednesday, September 5th, 2007

I’m starting to get low on business cards, I’ve been handing them out like they were candy and unfortunately the company I used to go through decided to update their pricing, so I’ve been surfing the ‘net looking for a few new places. I came across GreatFX Business Cards, and they look rather promising. I already have a template created, and luckily they give me the option of uploading the template to their server and they print them from there. I think I’m going to go with a glossy card this time, the basic flat design that I was using before isn’t really saying much to me anymore. Yes, I know “Krissy, it’s just a card with info” but based on how I like to control every aspect of things, of course I’m going to make sure it’s an interesting looking card to hand out.

It’s kind of like the card my step-father gave me in regards to his tattoo place. One of the artists drew a design, they sent it in for their two-sided business cards and they glossed it over. Based on that alone (instead of the very dull boring one I got from my tattoo place) I found this other place a little more appealing. It sounds dumb, I’m sure, but a card is a card and unless there’s something unique about it, I don’t pay much attention to it.

PPP This GreatFX place also does magnets too, I don’t know if I’d ever get into the magnets business. However, I’ve seen fridges that are LOADED with them because it’s easy access from the kitchen phone to search for your favorite eatery and find the number. I can get about $1,000 cards for $69, which really isn’t a bad price at all. I was paying about $80 through the previous company and if I wanted a glossed image that would probably cost me about $100, so saving $30 is always a good deal to me.

In order to bring in some business I keep them pinned up on pin-boards in almost every supermarket and store I visit that offers that kind of advertising to their customers. I can’t tell you how many clients I’ve had in the past that only found me because they walked past my card when they were on their way home from the store. So it’s an inexpensive way to bring in some decent business. I think one of the largest accounts I landed through business card advertising was in the $15k range. Most people don’t make that in a year, I did it in a month. Thank goodness for cheap advertising that’s visually appealing – right?

Son of a !@#$

Wednesday, September 5th, 2007

I’m beyond fed-up with the downtime, I just can’t find another company quick enough it seems, and it’s driving me crazy. It’s added stress to an already stressed out person. My eye is still twitching and anytime I try to get in and work on something site based it just twitches even more. Someone running on dial up could access a site faster, and I’m not even talking just the main page. WordPress, it takes two seconds to get to that screen (typically) I waited for a good 120 before everything timed out.

It’s not even my servers, I’m talking about the outside reseller account that I have setup for my personal domains.¬† The whole data center is just freaking slow!

:GRR:

Great Priced Furniture: Dining Rooms

Tuesday, September 4th, 2007

With decorating on my mind, I’ve been moving full speed ahead at building a bookmarks folder with house hold items that I know will be purchased after we get our house. When it comes to me, the only important rooms are kitchen and bedroom, but that’s typically where all of my time is being spent. I’ve been looking into dining room furniture because I do spend a lot of time cooking and based on the few places we’re interested in, counter space is limited. So extending the kitchen via dining room table is naturally the route that I want to take.

I’ve spent most of my time searching around GreatPricedFurniture.com, I like their site. I’ve come across them on a Google search more times than I can remember. Part of me wonders if they have an actual show-room anywhere because some of their products are GORGEOUS. If I had the kind of money to fill a big house with quality furniture for dramatic effects, the way most of their images are on the site, I’d be a happy, happy girl.

Quest for Bedding

Tuesday, September 4th, 2007

I’ve taken a break from the hosting search for a little while, now I’m in the mood to decorate. I’m looking around Walmart, Kmart, Target and Kohls for a bedding set. I typically do this whenever I get a new mattress, something about everything being NEW that makes me a happy girl, I don’t know.

I found a few interesting sets in Walmart (cheapest of the bunch) but none of them were appealing enough for me to actually go ahead and purchase them. Kmart absolutely sucks when it comes to bedding; I’ve always hated their products, and their pricing. Target is proving to be completely useless. Then again, I don’t think I’ve ever liked them. Their commercials are beginning to freak me out. I’m all for new and interesting ways of advertising but when you get a creepy feeling anytime you see a stores commercial, you aren’t really going to just walk into their store, you know? As far as Kohls is concerned, they’re the most expensive out of the bunch and I can’t seem to find anything there either.

I now understand why so many people mix and match things, it’s impossible to find a complete set that meets all of your personal requirements. We have a reversable black and grey comforter that I picked up from Walmart. I also loaded up on pillow cases because having everything match is a big thing for me. I guess my only option now is to purchase the fitted and flat sheet from Walmart as well, and then for the extra color just pick up some throw pillows. Or probably just an extra blanket to drape over the bottom of the bed. I naturally want to decorate, it’s just hard to maintain when you’re the only one making the bed in the morning.

Web Hosting Unleashed – My search continues.

Tuesday, September 4th, 2007

I’ve been looking around the Internet for a new hosting company. I’m sick and tired of the horrible service that I’m dealing with everything from constant server outages and email spam issues to the account suspension a few weeks ago that seemed to go right over my head – even though I’m the one who’s paying for everything so naturally I should have been informed FIRST, you know?

So, I’m going through numerous websites and comparing pricing, I came across Web Hosting Unleashed, they currently have a database of 2,084 web hosting companies. I learned that the number one reviewed host is Lunarpages, a company that I’ve actually been looking into. The only thing about them that I’m not too fond of is the pricing they have set for the resources that I would personally need in a dedicated server. I’ve been lucky enough to find a few hosts of the same caliber with some saving and a few more resources at the same time. I used Web Hosting Unleashed to locate a few of them, the rest were based on word of mouth through a few colleagues of mine.

This site just recently did an update of their template about 10 months ago, and I have to say they’ve done a really nice job on it. I like sites that are focused around Web 2.0 styling so naturally my eye is being drawn there. I’m sure this is only a fad thing but when vectors and scratched up images were the big thing, I always found plain-jane CSS templates to be more appealing.

Another thing I like about them is their Coupons section. I’m a coupon code fanatic so naturally going through them is appealing to me. I can’t find one for my top-choice companies but that’s OK considering I know of the other options out there in case they don’t work out for me. I guess I’m just itching to start fresh and move things over, who knows. I do know that Web Hosting Unleashed will help me out and that’s all that matters to me.

They also have a hosting guide, it’s a pretty detailed page of different searches you can make, and what hosting terms mean. Say you’re interested in starting up a reseller account and are looking into billing software, you can search specifically for hosts that offer a free billing software to use with your clients. I’d say that’s a nifty resource. It helps organization – that’s for sure.

This was a sponsored post.

More sleep and a new bed.

Tuesday, September 4th, 2007

I woke up pretty late today, so much for staying on a regular schedule. I didn’t get to sleep until about 7am, but I’ve been ass-deep in getting as many things accomplished as humanly possible. Mainly for financial reasons, but there’s a few biggies there.

We’ve purchased a new bed from Restonic, it should be here sometime next week and my back is hopefully going to thank me for it considering it’s been screaming at me for the last few days.¬† We got an AMAZING deal on it too. It’s factory direct from Restonic, retailed at $1800 if one were to purchase it in the store, we got it for $650. Did I mention this was a KING Plushtop w/ Memory Foam? Talk about a good deal, hm? Karen works for a furniture store and this was an employee promotion so she put in the order for us and the rest is cake. We’re on a make-shift king at the moment, two twin liners on the floor so it’s very uncomfortable. I’m going to head over to Walmart, maybe even the Mill Outlet (linins store) and pick up a king fitted and flat sheet then that’s basically taken care of. I’ll be off the floor, the room will look cleaner because it will be easier to differentiate between Bella’s bed an ours. It’ll also be so much easier to get out of bed because now it’s just stepping down instead of having to stand up. That really does hurt in the morning with how my back is going. I dread getting on the floor at night but when you have to crash, you have to crash.

Priviate MD

Tuesday, September 4th, 2007

PPPWhat do you feel about Online Lab Tests?

I’m looking around PrivateMDLabs.com and you can use the site for basically EVERYTHING. There’s the ability to get the proper supplies for STD testing, direct-to-consumer lab tests, HIV testing, Liver Testing, Drug Testing, Herpes Testing and even Anti-aging testing. I don’t know why but I found this to be a wee-bit strange. Mainly because I’ve never heard of anything like this before.

The benefit to all of this, naturally, is the ability to privately get yourself, a loved one or even a potential employee tested for something rather important but at the same time – is there ANYTHING that can’t be done from home anymore? Based on what I’ve read, it’s also a financial benefit as well. Approximately 35% of the US population is uninsured and going to an actual doctors office to get these tests can be rather expensive. Going through this particular company, or any private company I would imagine, is more than likely going to save you a bit of money in the end.

Test results no longer come in the mail, or via phone service. You’re now given your results over email. This is why one would consider going through a Private MD. I’ll be the first to tell you that doctors are over paid for their services, especially considering the nurses (in many cases) are the ones doing the real work (hospital wise). A doctor walking around randomly checking charts and giving recommendations for $250,000 a year is absolutely absurd in comparison to the $50,000 a nurse is making when they’re the ones helping to change the sheets, constantly check the machines and make sure the patients themselves are comfortable. I’d take a nurses position over an actual doctor any day, but this is a completely different post that could easily exceed 5,000 words if I ever went to write it up.

Moving right along…

I do respect anonymity and those interested in saving a dollar but seriously, the only real way (that I know of) to test your Liver is a stool sample, and that alone just grosses me out. The HIV/STD tests, I can understand those, especially the drug testing. But I would assume that it would be easier to see an actual doctor when it comes to things like cholesterol testing and blood-testing in general. I’m the kind of person who would leave that kind of thing up to the professionals (and yes, I mean the nurses) even though I’d be spending a bit more.

Twitching over new toys

Tuesday, September 4th, 2007

Sean and I took a trip up to Best Buy in Dover today because he found a decent deal on a monitor and wanted to look at it in person before he went ahead and purchased it. A quick $180 on a 20″ Widescreen, and we were then homeward bound. He’s got it setup but his computer is acting funny so he hasn’t been able to enjoy it yet. Either way he actually has a desk again thanks to the loss of a massive CRT and that’s just gravy.

As for me, my left eye has been twitching all freaking day long and the superstitious end of me knows that it either means a streak of luck is coming or something horrible is coming. An actual eye resource, and not some hippy tree-hugging website that claims to have the answer to everything notes that it’s based on fatigue/stress. It only started about an hour ago but my eye randomly focusing in and out isn’t helping me concentration, that’s for sure.

Shared Webhosting

Sunday, September 2nd, 2007

I’ve been looking into other shared hosting plans. I know this may sound strange considering I run my own servers. But I’m looking for outside resources so I can get sites off the server that I don’t personally want taking up anymore room than they do. When I combine my four domains, I’m going through about 100gb of bandwidth a month and since most of them are on the same server, it’s just taking away from those who actually pay for the service. I’m very easy to please as far as requirements are concerned.

Unfortunately with my resources I’m limited to either large reseller accounts or standard hosting plans that offer up quite a bit of bandwidth. I refuse to go to anyone that offers a few terebytes to their customers because I think it’s wrong to offer more bandwidth than is actually set to the server, but I also understand that no one paying $10 a month for webhosting is going to use over 2tb of bandwidth on a monthly basis, either.

So I’ve been poking around concentric.com and their plans are a little pricey for my budget, but I can understand why they’re charging what they are. I would expect that 10GB of diskspace, and 100GB of bandwidth would be in the $67.95mo. range but at the same time. I know there’s got to be a resource out there for half the price with a reseller account. The $75 Google AdWords credit is great, but I also refuse to have anything to do with Google.

This is my preference though, if you’re looking for hosting then head over to concentric.com.